June 13, 2013

My story behind the word BOX


A few weeks ago, I was contacted by one of Onestopenglish editors about writing a story for a section of the MacMillan Dictionary Blog entitled STORIES BEHIND WORDS. I've always liked stories; I believe you can learn a lot through them. After reading some of the stories already shared in the blog, I chose to share a story which I've already written in Portuguese, in my M.A. dissertation, but this time the story would be told in English.

This is my story:

2009 was a singular year in my life. I was diagnosed with breast cancer and had to stay home during the treatment. As I couldn’t be in a real classroom, I moderated an online course for teachers. During my treatment, one of the participants of the course lost her mom to the same disease. Some weeks later, this teacher e-mailed me asking if she could send me a box with gifts she had bought for her mom but had no chance to give her before her passing. She told me she would send a book about cancer which would help me a lot. I was deeply touched by her offer and answered that I was honored to receive such a special gift.
One day, as I got home feeling a bit dizzy after a chemo session, I saw a big box on my sofa. “Wow, what a big box!”, I said. “It’s Andressa’s box!”, I explained while taking the box to my bedroom. I sat down on my bed and started opening the box. Inside the post office box, there was a beautiful second box tied with a purple ribbon. I was caught by surprise when I opened its lid and felt like a little girl opening Christmas presents.
Inside the box, there was the promised book along with delicate paper flowers, pieces of colored paper and several little gifts. In every little detail, I could notice Andressa’s love for her mom and her kind gesture in including little treats specially for me, such as messages about education, hope and faith. I recorded a video message thanking my student and for the first time, wrote about my fight against cancer and the beautiful box which had brought me enormous joy and hope.





8 comments:

Daniela Pesconi-Arthur said...

Tao lindo, Ana... Fiquei emocionada... A minha mae tambem nao teve tempo de receber uma caixinha com mimos que eu tinha mandado pra ela pelo correio...

Mulheres guerreiras como voces merecem todo o carinho do mundo!!!!

Beijo grandao.

Dani.

Ana Maria Menezes said...

Dear Dani, thanks for the lovely comment. I can see from your posts in facebook how much you miss your mom. Having cancer affects not only the patient but the whole family. It's great that you have your family for support. bjao

Roseli Serra said...

Sua pequena notávael, formiga atômica mentora e amiga querida! Vc me fez chorar viu? E me ensinou lições inimaginávies. Obrigada ensinar a valorizar o que realmemte importa. Deus lhe abençoe !

Dear Ana, you made me cry and touched my heart deeply. Thank you so much for teaching me invaluable lessons! God bless you , sweet!

Camila B. said...

mãe, que post lindo :)

Ana Maria Menezes said...

Querida Roseli, eh pra chorar não. Eh pra ficar feliz com a vida. :)

Ana Maria Menezes said...

Camilinha, acho que esta história merecia ser contada.

Carla arena said...

Aninha, this is a true story of generosity. Really touching. You and Andressa are very special souls.

Ana Maria Menezes said...

Carla, thanks for the comment. To me this is a story of generosity and the beautiful way the internet can touch people's lives.